Grief


Symptoms

One way to describe grief is in five stages. These reactions might not
occur in a particular order, and can (at times) occur together. Not everyone
experiences all of these emotions:

1. Denial, disbelief, numbness

2. Anger, blaming others (God)

3. Bargaining (for instance
"If I am cured of this cancer, I will never smoke again.")

4. Depressed mood, sadness, and crying

5. Acceptance, coming to terms

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

On My Mind


Maybe I didn't love you
 Quite as often as I could have
 And maybe I didn't treat you
 Quite as good as I should have 

If I made you feel second best
 Girl I'm sorry I was blind
 You were always on my mind 

 And maybe I didn't hold you
 All those lonely, lonely times
 And I guess I never told you
 I'm so happy that you're mine 

Little things I should have said and done
 I just never took the time
 You were always on my mind
Adapted From Willie Nelson

My Reason for Living


You were my soul and my heart's inspiration
 You’re all I had to get me by
 You were my soul and my heart's inspiration
 Without you Sherry what good am I 

I never had much going
 But at least I had you
 How can you leave me knowing
 I ain't got nothing left if you do Sherry 

You were my soul an my heart's inspiration
 You're all I had to get me by
 You were soul and my heart's inspiration
 Without you baby what good am I 

Sherry, I can't make it without you
 And I'm telling you honey
 You were my reason for laughing, for crying,
 For living and for dying 

You were my soul and my heart's inspiration
 You're all I had to get me by
 You were my soul and my heart's inspiration
 Without you baby what good am I

 Oh what good am I
Adapted From Righteous Brothers

Monday, November 19, 2012

Honor


I gently lay my little poem
In the treasure chest
Which holds my greatest treasure
My son places his memento in
My grandson follows suit 

All the men in her inner
Circle of love
Have honored her
Paying homage
Each in his own way 

But greater than these
Small mementos
Is the honor she
Instilled in them
Each in her own way 

She can be proud
That all of her men
Are men of honor
Each proud to be a part of her 

Each calling her
By a different name
Wife
Mother
Grandmother

Each calling her Love

Saturday, November 17, 2012

Lonely


Lonely
Lonely without her
My soul is crushed
My heart beats slower and slower
 

Wishing, I think, to join her
Her, in her glorified state
With nothing but happiness to surround her
 

Me with an empty spirit
Longing to touch her one more time
To hold her one more time
Rather than sobbing
Over her mortal remains
 

Am I selfish to want to hold her again?
To want to simply touch her?
Forty-two years should count for something
But I know it won’t
God has made it very clear that none may
Cross back over the great divide
 

Yes, I play the happy, carefree fool
But in my heart I cry
Dry eyes fill empty eyes
Please let me see her so that I may
Just once more touch her beautiful face.
Gaze into her deep brown eyes                
 

Memories, both good and bad
Are precious to me now                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               They are all I have left
I must treasure them for as long as I can
For some are beginning to fade

But this I can say with all honesty 

I love you Sherry
I really love you

11/10/12

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Just to Touch Her



Let me touch her hand
Caress her cheek
Taste the nectar of her lips
Would that I could hold her in my arms 

What price would I pay?
What could I give in exchange?
For the joy of pressing her body to mine?
Smelling once again the fragrance of her hair 

She lies now, safe in the arms of our Savior
Feeling no sorrow, shame or pain
These are the feelings I have 

The sorrow at her loss
The shame of how I’ve acted
The pain of the pain I’ve caused
 

Does she share the loss, the shame, the pain?
Have her tears been wiped away?
Does she look at me with sorrow in her eyes?
Knowing she is happy and I am filled with loathing 
Can she forgive or does she just forget?
 

Someday, will I hold her?
Gaze into her beautiful brown eyes?
As her love embraces me?
Or will I see only pity? 

 

10/10/12

Friday, November 9, 2012

Memories


Memories
Flowing down the
Pathways of my mind
And echoing through
The passages of time 

Memories

Roses touched
By gentle sunshine
Yet quickly closing
As twilight falls 

Memories
Sweet memories
As morning turns to evening
Shadows crowd my mind
Thoughts of long ago
Faded to the past 

But one thing remains the same
Burned into my secret place
Where none’s allowed to go 

I love you Sherry
I really love you

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

If I Stand

There's more that rises in the morning
Than the sun
More that shines in the night
Than just the moon
There's more than just this fire here
That keeps me warm

In a shelter that is larger
Than this room
There's a loyalty that's deeper
Than mere sentiment
A music higher than the songs
That I can sing

The stuff of earth competes
For the allegiance
I owe only to the giver
Of all good things

So if I stand let me stand on the promise
That You will pull me through
And if I can't let me fall on the grace
That first brought me to You
If I sing let me sing for the joy
That has bornin me these songs
But if I weep let it be as a man
Who is longing for his home

There's more that dances on the prairies
Than the wind
More that pulses in the ocean
Than the tide
There's a love that is fiercer
Than the love between friends
More gently than a mother's
When her baby's at her side
Rich Mullins 7/29/12